My husband and I live in Ireland, and one thing that has been bothering me is his attitude towards my family. This man has brought three of his siblings over to Ireland, and he has also brought his mother and father all the way from Benin to Germany to celebrate Christmas with him. But whenever I suggest that he helps bring one of my siblings over, he immediately says my family is not his responsibility. He has even gone as far as telling me that whatever he chooses to do with his money is none of my business. Honestly, I find this attitude very selfish. I am not saying he should be forced to take responsibility for my entire family, but I believe marriage should involve some level of consideration, fairness, and support for both families. It bothers me that he can make sacrifices and arrangements for everyone on his side, but when it comes to mine, he draws a very clear line. Am I wrong to expect him to show my family some consideration too?
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