I’m from a tribe that believes age is not on a woman’s side. The thing is, I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost four years now, and our relationship was perfect at first, the vacations, spending time together, going out to clubs and all. This guy is someone that has so many people around him, but the thing is, back then we always went out to hotels, travelled and all, so we had enough time to spend together. The problems now started when he moved into his house. We are not married yet, but our parents know each other and it is more like a mini introduction. Ever since he moved into his own house, we started living together, and that is when the problem started. It is just as if he basically built a family house. His family are always around, outsiders too, and he is not an understanding person.
I have tried to reason with him that we need our privacy too, but he is someone who believes he owns his house and can do whatever he likes with it. I have tried to explain myself to him several times, but he did not even consider my own opinion and feelings. Ever since he moved into his house, we stopped going out for fun. Let’s say I am the one he stopped from going out because he still goes out weeks and days, and anytime I try to tell him I should go with him, he will say who is going to stay with the people at home. These things are getting me depressed, and I am not even enjoying privacy with him anymore. The relationship is even boring because we live with too many people. The only time we are always intimate is when we are in the room at night. I love this guy and I have tried to communicate with him so many times, but he is not listening to me. Please, sisters and brothers in the house, what do I do? No insult please, I am pleading, ma/sir.
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