My boyfriend has a thing for tall, slim girls, which made him fall in love with me fast. He prefers tall and slim over big yansh or petite girls. We started a beautiful relationship 4 years ago where we both had plans and goals for the future. After 2 years, we both got our visas to travel to different countries. He went to Canada and I went to Europe. I asked him, should we do distance or should we end things before travelling? He said we could do distance, let’s trust the process. Everything was fine with the distance relationship at first. Communication was beautiful, we had plans on reuniting and getting married. I thought I had found my husband, so I pushed every other guy here away. I was very loyal and I kept myself for him. Things went well for 2 years. Suddenly, communication dropped. I asked why. He opened up to me that he met a new lady in Canada who was exactly like me, tall, slim, and well mannered, just his exact spec. I was dumbfounded. I also met men here, but I still stayed loyal to you because I wanted the relationship to work. This guy actually broke up with me and said he would rather pursue things with his new girl in Canada so he doesn’t keep wasting my time.
I appreciate his honesty though and I respect the fact that he didn’t waste my time by double dating, but I feel so hurt and shattered. I am so heartbroken as I am typing, 4 years of my life wasted just like that. How can he just forget about me and our promises to each other? My best friend is gone, my lover is now with someone else, where do I start from? I have blocked him everywhere so I can heal fast. I don’t want anything to remind me of him right now, I don’t even want to mistakenly see his pictures on social media. I keep crying morning and night. I guess time heals and I would be fine. I understand it’s better to be in a relationship with someone in the same country as you, but he shouldn’t have done distance with me, he shouldn’t have promised me heaven and earth. Well, I wish them all the best. Fellas, never rely or trust anyone. Human beings change.
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