Good day Rantz family, my story started from my ex-boyfriend who is a smoker, and from where I came from I can’t bring a smoker as my husband for my parents, they won’t allow it, so I decided to break up with him. But before I did, I aborted one pregnancy for him because he was the one who disvirgined me, and through the process I got pregnant, and I couldn’t keep it because of my family. After the abortion, I noticed I have pain whenever I have s€x, and I still feel like I am pregnant at my upper stomach, and when I press it I feel sharp pain. I don’t know what to use for it. If anyone knows anything about it, please let me know. So fast forward to six months after breaking up with him, I met a very nice guy who is ready to be serious with me, but I am older than him by like 3 years. I was 25 when I met him while he was 22 years old. Now I am about to clock 27 while he will clock 24. So one day we started talking and I told him I want to get married at the age of 30 at least, and he said no problem, but I knew it won’t happen with him being young. We talked again about marriage and he told me if I can wait for 5 years, that is when he can consider marriage, because for now he is not ready.
I was confused and asked him about his reason, and he told me when I get to 31 he will still be 28 and active, while me I will be getting old and not as active like him, which I know is true. I told him to let us break up, but he said he doesn’t want to lose me, that he loves me and he will try to make things work, which I disagreed with because I know it is possible his family will not agree with us being together. Lest I forget, we are both students. He is in his final year while I am still in 200 level because I gained admission when I was 25, but I was a graduate of NCE before I went for my BSc where I met him. So the problem is that I went to the hospital to confirm my health issues and find out why I have low libido and I am not active s€xually again. They found nothing, only pelvic inflammatory disease, and I want to have my own baby. Please, if anyone knows the type of test I can do to know the status of my fertility, I will be glad. So what should I do with my boyfriend, should I leave him and find my age mate or continue the relationship with him? Please be nice and don’t judge.
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