I met a guy in 2018. He liked me so much, but at that time, I didn’t give him any attention because I was in a serious relationship, and one thing I will never do is cheat on my partner. Fast forward to 2024, the guy I met in 2018 reconnected with me, and we became really good friends. He asked me about my relationship with the other guy, and I told him we broke up in 2022 and I had been single since then because I am very scared of heartbreak. The last heartbreak made me fall really sick, so I always block my heart and my brain from anything about love. This guy started convincing me to be in a relationship with him. He said I knew he had liked me since 2018 and that he just knew I was the woman for him because he saw how I handled my last relationship, and that’s the type of woman he wanted. Omo, guys, I’m not going to lie, I had my doubts, so I told him let’s keep it at a friendship level first and get to know each other as friends. We started talking, and I asked him about his ex. He told me she dumped him to marry another man, then later divorced her husband and started manipulating him into accepting her back.
Only for him to find out she was pregnant with her divorced husband’s child. So he told her he could no longer continue with her. He has never really been lucky with love. He also told me he is from a family of pastors and that they don’t wear jewellery, trousers, short gowns, or bodycon outfits in his family. They also don’t wear wigs or use attachments to make their hair. Then he said his parents don’t want girls who fix lashes and nails as their daughter-in-law, but he doesn’t care about that. He can marry any girl he wants, but whenever the girl follows him to his parents’ house or village, she will have to dress according to how his parents and family members want. After he told me all these things, I started having second thoughts about being with him because I am a Catholic, and I like to dress neatly and according to my body type. I don’t expose my body, but I wear trousers, good wigs, and I fix my lashes and nails. My parents and family do not have any problem with those things. In the long run, I told him I couldn’t be with him because his family’s way of life was totally different from mine,
and I didn’t want to pretend to dress like Mary Amaka in front of his parents because it would be deceitful. He started begging me, saying I could compromise on his behalf and that he didn’t have a problem with all those things. It was just that whenever we were going to visit his parents, I had to pretend to dress according to what they wanted. To cut the long story short, this boy started being so sweet and nice to me in different ways that the mumu girl in me started convincing herself that I could compromise and just do what his family wanted. Fast forward to October 2025, I decided to give him a chance. One thing about me is that I love too deeply. Once I fall for you, I can spend my last card on you, especially when I see that you really need it for something meaningful. Please, ladies, don’t be like me. I hate this soft heart of mine. That’s how I started doing everything right by this boy. I was always apologetic whenever we had an issue. I gave him serious peace of mind, and vice versa because I won’t lie, he was also there for me and gave me peace.
I’m not saying the relationship was perfect, but out of the six months, 180 days, we dated, we only had issues about eight times. Normal boyfriend and girlfriend issues. He was also very manipulative because he knew I could apologise for Africa. Then, on the 12th of April, 2026, this boy told me how he could never leave me because I was the best woman he had ever dated. He professed serious love to me and thanked me for being so sweet to him in ways no woman in his past had been. Guys, guess what? On the 13th of April, 2026, this boy called me and broke up with me. I was so confused. I asked him what I did. I called all his friends to beg him. Shame left my eyes, and I was acting like a mumu. This boy told me he didn’t see me in his future and that I would thank him later for leaving me. Guys, I was so confused. I asked him what I did. After giving so many excuses, he finally told me that his prophet, his church evangelist, told him that I was not the woman for him and that if he eventually married me, I would frustrate his life in different ways and be a bad wife.
Guys, I was confused because I have never in my life given any man trouble. He is even my second boyfriend ever because after I broke up with my ex in 2022 for cheating on me with my friends, I ran away from the dating pool. This 31-year-old man started telling me that I am a very good girl and the best girl he had ever dated, but because of that prophecy, he couldn’t be with me. At this point, I don’t know if he is lying to me or if a prophecy really came. This is how some men of God destroy people’s lives with prophecy. Omo, I’m just begging God to heal my broken heart because I am a very soft girl, and I don’t deserve this type of w*ckedness.
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