There’s this man I have been talking to since January. He stays in the United States while I stay here in Nigeria. This man made me feel he doesn’t do relationship business, because he has been heartbroken in the past, that he can’t love a woman. He keeps saying he doesn’t want to get married and he doesn’t want children and all. Mind you this man is 39. I kept advising him, trying to change his mind, because I do love him. After some months he said he wanted a situationship with me. I wasn’t liking the whole idea because I’m 26 and I want to settle down soon, but I just agreed to us having a situationship. He never calls and he is so nonchalant about me. I am the only one putting effort in the relationship. Until around last month I texted this man with my second number, pretending to be someone else. I sent him a fake picture of a fine girl and he was all over her, always texting her, requesting to call her, saying he will sponsor her to come down to the US,
even telling her she will be his future girlfriend. He was saying he wants to f*vk her and saying she’s his type. It made me wonder what men really want. I’m a beautiful girl with a beautiful shape. Omo I feel hurt, betrayed, and used. This is someone I believed. He doesn’t know how much this hurts me and I haven’t taken him seriously till this day. I no longer call or check up like I usually do and I know he doesn’t notice this. I just want to have a good relationship and get married because I’m genuinely tired of men’s lies. I hope he sees this.
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