It all began with a Facebook message, then we moved to WhatsApp. You know, from status viewer to asking me out, then we started dating. We dated from 2021 to 2025. We broke up on November 1st, 2025. I’m sad and broken. I’m not okay. I’ve lost my spark. I don’t feel good. This guy literally wasted my years. I’ll be 29 by June. Where did I go wrong? How did I get here? I wasn’t a bad person, I promise. I wasn’t. It all started when he started watching GehGeh. I know this is crazy. He would call me a leech and say I’m in the relationship because of the benefits. He would call me a bitch. Nothing pained me more than the first two names he called me. I was never the “collect only” type; I used to gift him randomly too and on special occasions. If he gave me, let’s say, 30k, I would save 20k ahead just to make sure I gifted him too. I wasn’t working then. The online business I was doing wasn’t moving well. I tried to compensate in areas where I couldn’t support financially by cooking in bulk for him whenever I visited, cleaning, and doing his laundry. He would call me names and remind me that I’m getting old, while he’s a man and can get married anytime he wants. Where did I go wrong? How do I move on? How do I move on from a four-year relationship? I’m working now, and I learned a tech skill that’s paying my bills. But I wish we were together. I wish I had the money I have now back then so I could spoil him even more. Maybe he wouldn’t have left. Where did I go wrong? How do I start afresh? I’m really sad.
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