Hi guys, I’m 24+ and will be turning 25 in about three months. I don’t know if it’s weird or cringe to be a virgin at this age. I’ve had all kinds of romance and all, but I’ve never been penetrated. I’m not even of the belief that it should be until the wedding night. I just find sex very painful every time I’ve tried. I don’t know if I’m asexual or something. I’ve lost good guys because of my inability to have sex. I love the idea, I have fantasies about it, and I even dream about it, but I can’t bring myself to actually do it. I’ve been with guys who were patient enough, but at the end of the day, they get fed up. I really want to do it so badly, but I’m scared of the pain. I opened up to a close friend, and she said it’s probably a medical condition, but I’m too shy to go to the doctor to seek help. Nobody around me even knows this, not even my mum. I once tried to tell her indirectly, but she didn’t believe me. I have a degree from the University of Lagos, and I don’t even bother being in a relationship anymore. Am I the only one experiencing this? What can I do? I’ll be in the comment section. Please be kind. Thank you.
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