So there is this guy we met on IG a few months ago, though I knew him before but we did not talk then. I just saw his DM on IG. He wanted us to date, but I had a boyfriend then, so I did not agree. A few weeks after, my supposed boyfriend ghosted me, so it made me start talking to him, but I was in school then, we could not see each other. We agreed on seeing each other when I got home because we stay close to each other. We later met up in September after doing talking stage online for 3 months. I agreed to date him, though I did not really put my mind in the relationship because I knew him to be a playboy or someone who had many female friends. I was just trying to believe his words that he is a good guy. I got a job around that time, so we could not see each other often. I am usually less busy on Sundays, but I did not want to go because he was already saying we were going to have s€x anytime we see, and I am not comfortable doing that with him yet because I do not trust him and I was afraid of him ghosting me like my ex did. So I told him it was too early for s€x.
The next thing he said was that I did not feel it was too early for me to bill him. Mind you, throughout the talking stage and dating, all I ever got from him in total was N15k. I do not really bill him because it is always one excuse or another, so I avoid it. But him saying that kind of statement really surprised me because he did not even do anything for me. He said if I am not ready to have s€x, then we should quit the relationship because he cannot waste his money. I agreed to us quitting, but I just feel somehow. I do not know if there is anywhere I did wrong because I am starting to question myself, like I did not handle the situation well.
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