I’m a 20-year-old lady. I met a guy on Insta early last year who was 29 years old as of then but clocked 30 years by December. We didn’t talk much until June or July last year when I made a post on my WhatsApp status, thanking God for finishing my university education in good health, and I jokingly said it was time to get married. That’s when he entered my DM. We joked about the post and all, so from that moment, our conversation was getting intense, and we started talking more. This guy would make me play all sorts of games with him on WhatsApp with the mentality that we are all mature, but he does not like the part where I refuse to take my nudes or send nasty videos because I hate the idea of sending nudes.
So we were still talking, and I decided to meet him in Osogbo, but I stay in Lagos. We had sex on the first day and I stayed at his place for two days. We continued talking with no changes whatsoever. Then I went to see him again, and we had sex, but the second time I saw him, I stayed at his place for more than 2 days. When I got back home, this guy stopped talking to me. Even before, if I was angry, I would block his number, and he would look for different means to reach me and beg me, but now the excuse this guy gave me was that he was going through a financial crisis and he wanted to focus on getting money. He would just greet me “Good morning babe” on WhatsApp continuously, and that was all for the day until he stopped greeting me “Good morning.”
I stopped trying to reach him because it was obvious he was playing me. I deleted his number from my phone, but I did not block him. After like two weeks, he texted me yesterday, and the way he even called my name, I was like, “This one has finished with me.” Then he asked me, “Did I delete his number or did I stop posting?” Then I said, “I stopped posting,” and that was the end of the conversation. Rantz family, did this guy really play me or is he going to come around? I’m really pained. I feel like teaching him a lesson, but I don’t know how.
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