Good day, Rantz family. The person I thought I could never live without, to my greatest shock, we linked up, and the sex was just there. Mind you, we dated but broke up, and I thought we could figure things out again. To my surprise, it was the love we had for each other that made everything feel special. Hmm. Then I moved on. During my healing stage, I wasn’t dating. You know why? I was still hoping, or maybe I just wasn’t ready to accept the truth. Omo, Rantz family, make I no lie oo so una go fit help me properly. Now this is my problem. I’m finding it hard to be in love. Would I say I became really comfortable being alone? Would I say I built my walls so high that I hated anything called love? I met this guy last year. At first, he didn’t tell me he had a girlfriend. I saw myself already liking him, but immediately he started showing signs and eventually told me he had a girlfriend, omo, na once I rearranged oo. Now let me hit the nail on the head. I’ve never seen him pick up a lady’s call before or move in the direction of having a serious relationship.
He’s always around me, and he shows that he cares about me. So I told my friend about the situation, and she asked if he was facing real-life problems. I said yes. She said maybe the guy likes me but doesn’t want commitment because he’s going through life problems. But me sef no fool because immediately he told me he had a girlfriend, I rearranged ASAP. We also find ourselves having relationship arguments when we’re just there, and it always starts from him though. Me, I’m already going with the vibe until I find my own person. But when? Because I’m too quick to say, “E no go far at all.” But you have to keep forgiving and giving people chances if you want love and want to be loved, right? What can I do to make my heart a little softer? Shebi dem talk say to be in love is to be a mumu? Overthinking dey worry me oo, and it’s affecting me. Should I just allow people to be whining me so I can find a man?
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