I met my guy during COVID (2020). He has a baby mama, and they both live together but are not married. He told me everything between them and promised to marry me. Fast forward to 2022—he cut ties with his baby mama, and they went their separate ways. He got a new apartment and started living alone. I also live alone, but since he got another apartment and couldn’t afford to furnish it, I moved my stuff to his place (though he bought everything for me). However, I’m not living with him—I went back to my parents’ house.
I have a walk-in store where I sell stuff, but since I moved my belongings to his place, I also moved my store closer to his new apartment. I haven’t reopened it yet due to financial reasons. Long story short, when we started dating in 2020, after five months, I got pregnant, and we both decided to ab0rt it since we weren’t ready, and it was too early for us. I told him that day that I wouldn’t abort another one. Now, I’m pregnant again, and when I told him, he said he’s not ready for a child and that I should ab0rt it again.
He said we’re not financially stable to raise a child and that if I want to keep it, I should go ahead but count him out. Both of our parents are aware of our relationship, and hopefully, we’re getting married next year. I don’t want to abort this pregnancy, and I can’t handle it alone. He’s 35, and I’m 26. What should I do? I don’t want to call his family and make it seem like I’m forcing the baby on him. I promised God not to abort again, and I was advised not to.
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