Have you ever been on the cusp of success, only to have your progress derailed by self-doubt, procrastination, or missed opportunities? This phenomenon is known as self-sabotage, and it’s more common than you might think. Self-sabotage can be a major obstacle to achieving our goals and realizing our potential.   WHAT IS SELF-SABOTAGE? Self-sabotage occurs […]

I introduced my very close male friend (bestie even, I’ve known him all my life) and my close female friend to each other. They hit it off and now they’re together. My problem now is, unintentionally, I get sad that I don’t have the love she has. I’ve been in just one serious relationship and […]

I know some of you will say trash, bla bla bla, she’s not my wife, she’s not this, she’s not that. But Nigerian girls will want a guy to play the role of a father and husband in a relationship while they will be hesitant about playing the role of a wife in a relationship. […]

Relationships without trust are challenging. As someone committed to my partner, and he’s my first intimate experience, yeah, he deflowered me. I’m frustrated by his insecurity. I feel disappointed in myself for considering actions that might hurt him – he doesn’t deserve that. We only shared one intimate moment, but his behavior has been inconsistent. […]

I just want to cry and probably cry later because have you ever cried because your mates are moving forward and it seems you’re just stagnant? I’m a fine boy in my early twenties, finished school since 2020 and it’s been over five years now and no admission. Do you know the pain of seeing […]