Hello Rantandtalkz, I need your advice on a personal matter. I met a guy on one app about five months ago, and we started chatting. He expressed interest in me and asked me to be his girlfriend, but I declined initially since I didn’t know him well. However, as we continued to talk, we got […]

Rantz family. Please, I need you all’s opinion on this story, especially the ladies. I relocated to the United States early 2024. I had a girlfriend of 5 years back in Nigeria, who I was planning to get married to next year. First of all, I have never cheated on this girl in our 5-year […]

I graduated with a third class, and ever since then, I’ve been feeling stuck. I’m currently doing my NYSC, but I honestly don’t know what direction to take next. Here’s the thing — my parents want me to relocate abroad to further my education, but they don’t know I graduated with a third class. I’ve […]

I’m tired. Deeply, painfully tired. It feels like I’ve been hustling for years, doing everything they said would lead to success, pushing through all odds, fighting silently, and yet, here I am still stuck, still empty. It seems like those who don’t even work are the ones enjoying life more. My mental health is unstable. […]

Sex and anxiety often walk hand‑in‑hand, turning what should be a natural expression of intimacy into a source of stress. The pressure to perform, fear of judgment, or past experiences can create a loop of worry that makes vulnerability feel risky. Yet, acknowledging that tension is the first step toward turning anxiety into a catalyst […]