Men are d*gs, and I mean it from my heart. People who tend to point fingers are the ones guilty of the crimes they accuse their partners of. I have been in a relationship with this man for about 2 years, and before God and man, I have been completely faithful. I even had to cut off everything and everyone just to avoid anything that might be an issue. But within these two years, this man has hurt my feelings beyond imagination. Every time I go through his phone, I always see chats of him texting other women romantically, and whenever I confront him, he always tries to manipulate me by saying he has never slept with any of them. But cheating is beyond just intimacy. The fact that you are leading someone on and chatting with them romantically still counts as being unfaithful. I have stood by him despite everything. On his birthdays and our anniversary, I give him thoughtful gifts worth thousands of naira, so at least no one will say it’s because he is always giving and he feels like I’m a burden. I don’t even ask this man for anything.
All I ever wanted from him is loyalty. Towards the end of October, I caught him texting another woman in a very inappropriate manner, and guess what? He gave me the most useless excuse ever. I’m fighting so hard for this relationship, but I don’t want to do it for someone who sees me as an option. My mother recently made a comment that one thing about relationships is that there will always be signs. And I wonder, we are not even married, and I’m already dealing with infidelity on his part. What will now happen when we get married? You can’t be in a committed relationship and be entertaining other females. I honestly don’t know what to do. I really love this man. Is it too hard to just be faithful? Why can’t men appreciate what they have? They will say nothing dey outside, but the good one you have, you are mishandling it. Please, I need opinions on what to do because I want to let it go and give it one last chance, but deep down, I don’t know if I can truly forgive him. I’ll be in the comment section. Think of me as a two-year-old and talk sense into me. I want the most brutal truth.
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