I’m so done with this relationship, I can’t even. It’s seriously draining me. Like, if you were in my shoes, would you stay in a relationship like this for months? I love him, but it’s all words and no actions, empty promises everywhere. I sit and think about us every day, questioning myself, wondering if I’m expecting too much, but this relationship is sooo questionable, and I just don’t like being in that kind of relationship. He just doesn’t put in the effort. All the things he promised me, baking class, gym, skincare, phone, passport, even data, he hasn’t done any of it since last year. I know he’s capable, but he just chooses not to. And when I come around, he doesn’t even bring it up or apologise. Like, I don’t need to force him to do stuff for me, but if I’m really his girl, he would do it without me reminding him over and over. Is he just being stingy to me, or does he just not want to take care of his girlfriend? I mean, we do stuff together whenever I go and see him.
Sometimes I will deliberately punish him by not allowing him to touch me, and he will get angry about it. Sometimes we stop talking to each other for weeks and sort it out and still come back to each other. I asked him for data yesterday because I was very broke and I couldn’t afford data. He noticed it. He said he was going to send me data. Till date, he has not sent the data. Even he lied that he had sent it. He asked me, “Babe, have you seen the data?” I said no. He was just being clingy that day. He was just calling me every 3/4 hours because he knew he didn’t send shit to me. And the data thing, ahhh! He whined and whined until he got away with not sending it and never even said anything about it. Jesus, my head. What the f*ck. He couldn’t even carry his phone and send me even N1k data. Chai. I want to break up with him. I’m tired of the relationship. He’s not investing in me. I feel lonely most of the time, and I don’t always have that feeling that I have a boyfriend. It’s mentally and emotionally draining. I just don’t know. Am I overreacting?
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