I’m a 26 years old guy living in Abuja. Long story short, I have this girl, we’ve been dating for a while. She’s been really nice to me, everything was OK but umm, a few months ago things got really tough for me and had to take a break from everything and everyone. She knows what I was going through at that point in time and although she stayed, I could tell she was fed up. She was only there physically but mentally and emotionally, she wasn’t there. So I travelled somewhere else for a while without telling her I was leaving because despite how bad the relationship was, she wouldn’t let me leave. So I left without saying anything to her. I got to my destination and told her everything, she felt really bad and said so she wasn’t so important that I had to leave without saying anything to her. I apologize for days or perhaps weeks before we got passed that.
Long story short, things are kinda ok for me now and I’m back in Abuja. We reconnected and we’ve been together for a month. Only for her to come out clean to me saying while I was away, she was in a relationship with someone else, and even did an abortion but they’re no more together. We talked and moved passed all that. Now, for some reason, I no longer feel love for her. I can’t trust her but haven’t said anything to her yet. Please guys I’m asking, how do I tell her I no longer want the relationship without hurting her? What’s more funny and crazy is I’m still so much in love with her but at the same time I don’t want the relationship. Please I need y’all advice.
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