I really need honest advice because I’m so confused. I met this guy, and within a week, I fell for him so hard. I honestly regret letting myself get attached that quickly because I’m usually a very guarded person. I never thought I’d fall in love with someone so fast. The thing is, I have this feeling that he doesn’t like me as much as I like him, and I know that’s where my problems started. We haven’t spoken in two weeks, and I haven’t been myself since. What’s hurting me the most is thinking that his life is moving on perfectly fine without me while I’m here missing him. We ended up having s€x after just two weeks of knowing each other because he said he liked me, and I felt the same way. I wasn’t expecting a serious relationship because of that, but I did expect consistency. I expected him to call more often, stop by my office sometimes, and make me feel like he genuinely wanted to be with me. He did call, but sometimes, it was only once or twice a day.
Some days, he would call in the morning and not call again until the next day. Those little things really affected me, but I always pretended they didn’t because I didn’t want to seem needy or look like I was chasing him. To be fair, I also didn’t call him much. He even complained about that a few times. My mindset was that if a man truly wants a woman, he’ll pursue her, so I didn’t think I should be doing the chasing. Whenever we were together, though, some things about his personality bothered me. He would say no to little things that I felt could have easily been done, and it made me wonder if we would even be compatible. My friends keep telling me, “You never communicated any of this to him. How do you expect him to know or change?” They’re probably right. The funny part is that I know he could tell I liked him. I was always smiling around him and blushing, and even when he would touch me and I tried to say no, I would end up smiling like a fool. Looking back, I probably wasn’t giving mixed signals on that part at all.
The last time we spoke, he invited me over, but I declined because I genuinely wasn’t in the right state of mind. I could tell he was upset, even though he didn’t say it directly. After that, he didn’t contact me for about a week. When he finally called, I didn’t answer. Then, he texted, asking if we could meet and talk things through. I wanted to see him so badly, but I declined because I didn’t want to look cheap or desperate. Instead, I told him to reach out the following week. He never did. Now, it has been another week with no calls or texts, and I’m left wondering if he ever really liked me or if he has simply moved on. So, my question is: Do you think he actually liked me and is now letting pride get in the way because I didn’t agree to meet and talk when he wanted to? Or do you think he just wasn’t that interested from the beginning? Should I be the one to text or call him now so we can finally have an honest conversation, or should I leave it alone? Please, be honest. I can take the truth.
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