My partner, the one who had been my rock, my confidant, my everything, my provider, had broken my trust. He does everything for me, let me say 90 percent of things, paid my bills, put me in school and always showered me with excess love. We have been dating for almost two years and even till now he shows me love in ways that I thought only existed in movies and fairytales. He swept me off my feet and I feel deeply in love with him. He met my family and they adored him, which I don’t let any of the guys I have dated do. But behind my back he cheated and he never denied me to the girls he cheated with. Instead, he told them he had a girlfriend and still engaged in secret encounters. The pain was suffocating and it was hard to breathe the day I read his chats. Not once but multiple times. I thought about all the times he lied to me and all the times he lived a double life.
When I confronted him about it he apologised and said it was because I fainted one day when we were having sex. I’m caught in the middle between my love for him and the anger towards his betrayal. I sell clothes online but the profits are barely enough to sustain myself, let alone my family who depend on me. I was considering staying in the relationship for practical reasons like financial stability and support, despite the emotional pain and betrayal. I’m not necessarily committed to the relationship forever but prioritising financial stability and support as a means to achieve my goals so that I can eventually walk away. So I’m reaching out for advice and I would love to hear from you. Please don’t just comment for the sake of it. Put yourself in my shoes and offer genuine advice. I’ll be reading the comments and I hope to find more clarity in your words. Thank you.
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