I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, and it’s a long-distance relationship, but we’re both in Nigeria. This guy has been nonchalant about me almost since we started dating. Firstly, he hardly calls me regularly, but a day can’t go by without us talking, even if it’s just once. After a lot of fights and misunderstandings, he eventually changed, but the change wasn’t enough. He’s not good with words. He doesn’t care to be sweet or romantic unless I remind him. I really want to hear other people’s opinions, at least from people who don’t know either of us. Are all these red flags? And of course, I know marriage doesn’t change anyone, but I’m just confused about this in particular. I’m quick to leave a relationship when the red flags become too much, but with this one, I just don’t know. It’s hard, but I can still leave because, at the end of it all, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Note: I’m not staying because of material things or money.
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