Hmm! I just feel like sharing my story here. I met this guy two months ago. He asked me out, and truly, I think the feelings were mutual. I asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said no. I asked him what would happen if he stopped being obsessed with me. He said he would pray to God that nothing like that ever happened. I said yes to this guy, and we started dating. I loved him so much that I could do anything for him. He led me on by calling me, telling me sweet words, sending me reels, and doing everything lovers do. He even told me about his past and his family. So, some weeks later, I noticed that he had changed, then I asked him what happened. He said nothing. Then, I asked if a girl was in the picture, and he said yes, that his ex had come back begging him. I was sad when he told me that, but he begged me and told me not to worry, that he would be mine forever. We continued our love life. Then, the next two days, I noticed he had changed again. I complained to him that I wasn’t happy with the way he behaved and that it was making me sad.
So, I went to his house one day. On my way back home, the lady called him. I asked him, “Did you tell her that you are in a relationship?” He said no because he didn’t want her to cry, as she had cried enough. I felt so heartbroken by what he said because I literally cried every time he acted weird. He told me they weren’t dating but were just friends and that I was overthinking things. Well, he told me that he needed space last week, and I asked him, “Does this space mean you are breaking up with me?” He said something like that. I cried like a baby, but since then, he didn’t stop streaking me, liking my stories, and all. Today, he chatted with me and said he would come to see me in my hostel without talking about what happened and how he made me feel by telling me that he needed space. He said I’m overthinking. He said he wants a breakup now and will stop disturbing me. He said we never dated and that it was just AN ADVANCED TALKING STAGE. This guy literally begged and stalked me before I said yes.
Guys, am I at fault for overthinking, for not being okay with him talking to his ex, or for complaining that I needed his attention? He could go days without chatting with me. I feel like I was being dumped. I’m crying now. Guys, please, pardon us ladies. If you are not over your ex, don’t talk to other girls. Heal before going to a new girl. He led me on. Now, I pray I don’t see all guys as the same.
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