I found out my boyfriend takes tramadol and viagra, I was contemplating if I should talk to him about it or not, but I ended up not talking to him about it because I didn’t know how he was going to feel. It continued for months and still, he didn’t discuss it with me, a couple of months later I was experiencing a low sex drive, I discussed it with him hoping he was going to do the same but he didn’t. The issue now is that one evening we were together, he went out to run some errands, I was checking for something else and I discovered that he had taken some of the drugs before going out. I was seeing my period so it was definitely not for me and I’m certain he took it because I checked earlier that day so I know the quantity that was there, and he even carried water while going out.
He later called me and said he was done with the errand and was going to meet up with friends in a hotel close by where we sit out sometimes. This made me furious so I took a picture of the drugs and sent it to him, I told him I knew the quantity that was there before and it had been reduced and he was going to a hotel. I was heartbroken so I poured out my heart to him asking him why he was bent on hurting me. He came back and denied everything, he said he didn’t know anything about the drugs that how will I see something like that and keep quiet for months. Mind you, he stays alone, I see used packs in the trash sometimes, I know when he restocks and he’s totally lying about it. Now he was the one angry saying I assume things and start nagging about it,
all this while I was calm I didn’t even shout, he was being manipulative and getting angry that I’m just assuming things and making issues out of it. I got angry and brought out the drugs asking him if he really knew nothing about it, and he said “Do you know you’re st#pid?” Because I was angry, I snapped back that he was the st#pid person. And he picked on that, that I in$ulted him and remained silent. In my life, that’s the first time I am ever in$ulting a man and I feel bad about it. I texted him and apologized for insulting him but he didn’t respond. I love this person so much, that I have never cheated on him. Right now, I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I was wrong in any way. I just need some sincere insights about this, please.
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