Please, I don’t know what to do! I and my ex dated for 5 years. We really loved each other, but he smokes, and he’s addicted to the extent of it affecting his education. I asked myself, would I be able to settle with this kind of a man? In the quest of searching for a responsible man, I met a guy in Lagos. Things happened between us, and I got pregnant for him. The fear of abortion made me keep the pregnancy because I’d ab0rted for my ex 3 times, and I don’t want any complications with my womb or something. Then we got married. It was after I gave birth I discovered he was squatting with the person he lives with. Meanwhile, he told me he was even the one that accommodated that person. He told me different lies to make me believe he was okay and comfortable for me because it was a long-distance relationship; we hardly met. It was now I discovered he didn’t even graduate from a tertiary institution.
He smokes, in fact, worse than my ex. The shocking thing now is I and my husband now live in my mother-in-law’s house together with my sister-in-law. In fact, the situation is much worse and whenever issues happen between his sister and I, I wouldn’t be able to talk because she’s my in-law. I couldn’t tell my parents the truth that he didn’t have his own house, and everything about his work was a lie. That’s why I’m staying with his mother, and all I’m facing because things are very tight, even to get things for my baby. My parents would definitely blame me, and the fact that I’m from a polygamous home. In fact, I don’t know what to do. I was even thinking about running away with my baby or divorcing him or going back to my ex because I am tired! I’ve cried, cried, and cried. I’m always deep in thought.
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