I want to know if I am wrong for advising my bf to sell one of his phones (which he isn’t using) since he’s broke at the moment and not getting jobs. Honestly, this isn’t even about me right now. I have my business and I manage from it. This is about his well-being. Most time back then, he used garri to break fasting (iftar), and it’s not like he doesn’t have stuff (’cause he loves to buy lands and gold as investment) he can use to hold himself down, but he believes that the suffering will motivate him more. I am tired o, I can’t continue like this anymore. I also need someone to support me and my brand as well. But if he can’t help himself how will he help me? It’s just a phone now, he will definitely get it back since it’s just to hold him pending when he starts to get jobs and get money. Besides, phones are not assets, abi. Is it that he loves to suffer, abi he wants to make me suffer indirectly? I’m really trying to endure, and I don’t want to cheat. I look so unkempt, not made my hair in 5 months (not joking).
I use my profit on transport and feeding. I even borrowed him some money a few weeks back, which I am regretting now, I won’t lie. He has debts on his neck. Why not sell the phone, settle debts, and get peace of mind and use the rest to hold body. I won’t repeat the advice again ‘cause he said okay and didn’t make any move since then. Please, I need advice cause I have really suffered with Adam(men) in past relationships without gaining anything so understand me when I say I am getting tired. Everything I have today, I worked hard for it. No man gave me anything. To be honest, he was supportive when I met him and just started dating, but things have changed, and he can’t even take an advice. I didn’t even get a birthday gift except “may you,” and I still didn’t react or make him feel bad about it. I feel this is the least he can do, for real.
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