I saw a story of a girl saying her body count is 6, like just 6, and you’re crying, lmao. Let me tell you, your friend saying hers is 1, that your friend sef is lying. My bestie used to tell me her own body count was 3; I used to believe her, but not until I went through her WhatsApp one day. She even asks guys to send nudes to her. I just locked up because it’s none of my business. After all, I, too, I’m no saint. My body count is 33, and sincerely, I’m not proud of it. I don’t cheat when I date. So far, my realest relationships that I can count are just 4, the rest, they just came to chop and go. Then, I used to cry. It increased when I decided not to date anyone. My first relationship was in 2021, that was when I lost my virginity at the age of 20.
I’m currently in a relationship that started this year, January, and I’ve never cheated on him, not even when I was in school. He even paid to prank me, and I passed. Why is my body count 33? A lot happened, not h00kup, not cheating, it just happened, and this happened from 2021 December to 2023 August. I no longer feel guilty about it because I learned to control myself. A lot of you will call me cheap, especially girls, but lol, I don’t care because you’re not saints either. Clean your eyes, my darling, isolate yourself, and focus on something else rather than men. After some time, ask God when a better man comes, he will direct you. It worked for me.
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