So there’s this stupid married guy I dated. He’s married with two kids, and he told me about it, although he said a lot of things about his wife, how she abuses him and sends him home. He would tell me, and I’d be like it’s not nice, blah blah blah. After we dated for one year without seeing each other, the next year, I allowed us to start seeing each other, even though I wasn’t very sure of him. After several excuses, I ended up seeing him the next year. We started having things together and all… To cut the story short, I do most things myself. I had loved him and didn’t even bother him about so many things I needed. Instead, I’d help with the little I had and support in one way. I even borrowed him my first salary to use for something important when he needed it, although he returned it. Sometimes I’d be the one to pay for the room we take and use my money for fare and all, still, I wouldn’t complain. Later, I noticed he’s temperamental, and he’s the problem in that marriage he complains about.
\He knows how to exchange words with a lady and even send you home if need be, stylishly, in any argument or issues. Fast forward to a day I got sick, and then I expected his message the next morning and challenged him. I was like, my health should be your priority today; at least drop me a message. He started saying so his work isn’t his priority, why would I be? I got pissed and said, “Don’t spew nonsense today.” He blocked me on WhatsApp, Instagram, and all social media platforms. I realized the second day. It’s painful ’cause I’m just recovering, but all the same, I pray he won’t know peace wherever he is, and my heart will judge him for using me like this. No one offends me and goes scot-free, but I don’t have any power, but God will deal with him mercilessly for me, and may God give his daughter someone like him. Amen. I just want to spit out my heavy mind here.
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