I went to my boyfriend’s place, and we had a good time and good sex. Then I noticed I was pregnant. After some weeks, I reached out to him and explained why I did not want to keep the pregnancy because I had a one-year compulsory course, and they won’t accept pregnant women, or I will have to wait extra until the baby is a year old. We discussed the abortion, and he told me he understood and didn’t have a choice. The problem we are having is that after having the procedure done, he started acting up, saying even though he said he wasn’t totally okay with it, he understands me. He said he needs space, he can’t stay with me forever, and that I’m disrespectful, and he started keeping his distance. We’ve been together for almost 5 years now, and we truly love each other, and I miss him. He stopped communicating, and he stopped me from seeing him.
We can’t see, not even as a surprise, because he won’t open the door, which I’ve experienced before. He became aggressive, gave me silent treatment, and he is difficult to handle as a person. He rarely listens to me when we have issues, and I will have to do everything on his timeline. He said he needs space and time. It’s over two weeks now, and it’s still the same. If I ask how much time he needs, there is no response except that I should focus on my life and all. This is something I can’t deal with for long. It’s really bad. My mind is telling me he already met someone else because I can’t even access his phone, though I don’t do that right from time. Please, what should I do?
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