I’m 25. I got into this relationship last year in August, and right now I can say that if you remove money from this relationship, nothing is left. I can’t even be clingy or goofy without offending him. Then the gaslighting, if you say how you feel, he will guilt-trip you into thinking you’re the problem. So please, people in relationships, don’t play. Why is my own different? I can’t even share how I feel freely because I don’t know if he will motivate me, advise me, or completely ignore me. If it’s a money problem, it’s easy for him to solve, but what about emotions? And we are planning on getting married. Both families are involved. I just feel trapped. I cannot survive on just money. All my life I have been struggling, which makes it difficult to confide in anyone. So if I’m getting into something, it has to be with someone I can be myself with, talk freely to, and be genuinely happy, not just surviving.
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