Good day Rantz fam, please help me because I’m really confused. I met my boyfriend since 2019. We were friends for one year before he finally asked me to be his girlfriend which I gladly accepted because I was already so much in love with him. During those times I had an accommodation issue because I had just moved to Lagos. I was moving from one place to the other. Those times were the most difficult time of my entire life. As at then my boyfriend didn’t have a place of his own but when I told him about my housing issues he suggested we should rent an apartment together because he couldn’t afford renting an apartment for me and him separately. I refused at first because I didn’t want see finish but he assured me and at the end I accepted. We have been staying together since 2021 till date and it has been amazing. Now this is the issue. I found out he cheated on me and that broke me. I don’t know how to feel. When I confronted him he apologised and started crying, saying a lot of things.
I told him I will forgive him if he blocks and deletes the girl’s number and he said he can’t for now, that he will do it but not yet. This is someone he met 3 weeks ago. He said they are just friends and nobody can ever take my place, that the girl already knows that. Like he wants me to be okay with him keeping her as a friend, someone that he is fxxcking. I have already seen an apartment because I feel the fact that he doesn’t want to let her go means he is already in love with her but he hasn’t realised it yet. He says something and his actions are telling me something else. PS they talk every day and their chats are locked. I want to know if I will be overreacting by moving out because he is just telling me it’s a phase and I should please understand and not leave him, but I don’t want to hate him.
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