I met this guy through a friend, or rather, we were matchmade by our mutual friend. We did the talking stage for a month. During that talking stage, we were always going out every weekend, even though some s€xual stuff happened, which I blame myself for and h8te myself for. The guy was so sweet and calm. He was literally everything I wanted in a guy, and he even mentioned we were both the same age. After the 1-month talking stage, he literally asked me out. I was so happy, you know that feeling? We went out on a date, and he asked me out again. The guy even picked an anniversary date for us, since he asked me out twice. It was so sweet. Then, on January 1st, we had issues which we spoke about, and both apologised. That Saturday, we spoke and still chatted, even did video call and ended the call with “I love you”. Sunday came, and I didn’t hear from him for a while until that night, and he texted saying we should end things because he is going through a lot. I asked questions, but he said it was personal. The next day, I cried my eyes out on my way to work. Mind you, we’d dated for three weeks. Everyone around me was surprised about the sudden breakup because he had given effort throughout the talking stage.
He told his friend, our mutual friend, about the breakup. The friend said he didn’t know the reason why he broke up. Later, the friend called, starting to ask questions like if I had moved on, what if he comes back, would I accept him? He also asked about my new admirers. He even said, apart from the breakup, I should know the guy liked me. The questions were so funny. At some point, the guy, my ex, checked on me three times. Then later, the friend said he was going to tell me the reason why the guy broke up with me. I asked him the reason twice, but his response was, “Move on, you’re even the one that’s supposed to tell me about new admirers, unless you haven’t moved on.” After hearing that statement, I swore I wouldn’t ask him for the reasons anymore or chat him up. Lastly, the guy, who is my ex, posted something about why 25 is tied to greatness. I was confused about that statement, but I feel he lied to me about his age. But why? Anytime I remember the issue, which is still fresh in my head, I ask myself what could be the reason why he broke up. But honestly, the dating pool is also messed up. Still, we haven’t met everyone that will show us the love we deserve.
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