I have this girl that I love so much. I love her wholeheartedly, and I’ve known her for a very long time. We dated and broke up before due to her high demands. But after the breakup, we were cool as friends, and to be honest, as a friend she doesn’t bill me at all. The only time she billed me as a friend was when she wanted to graduate; she asked me to send her a graduation gift, and I sent her one. Throughout the whole breakup phase, she was always on my mind because she’s someone I truly love. I wouldn’t have minded at all footing her bills, but she doesn’t make me feel loved. She’s not the type that’s thoughtful and reciprocates in a relationship. She has never gifted me before. I’m not after her gifts, but as a man, a gift as little as a pen makes us feel loved. So I thought maybe she had changed since she doesn’t bill me as a friend, and I brought it up again that I still love her.
She said she loves me too, and we both agreed to start again. Long story short, I have been billed for house rent within a few weeks of trying again. Now, paying is actually not the problem, but there are questions running through my mind, like does she really love me, if I couldn’t provide her needs would she stay with me, is she even in love or am I the only one in love? Honestly, it’s just crazy because I can’t imagine she later dumps me for another guy; I might go mad for it. I just wish God can give me a sign or clarity that she’s meant for me and that I won’t do all these in vain. I won’t mind overstepping my limits to get her what she wants, only if I can be sure that she’s truly in love with me. She wanted to get an apartment worth N5m, and she has just N2m, so she needs me to support her. She’s not the one to take the advice of cutting cloth according to her size. Please advise me. Should I just forget about her or continue the relationship and keep hoping for the best?
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