I have never felt this heartbroken in my entire life. My boyfriend, now my ex, has been cheating on me for the past three years. I found out he has had a hookup girl he has been with for the same three years and multiple sexual partners. Guess what, he pays one of them N5k, guys. N5k. The most painful part has to be him giving her my vibrator. I watched the videos he gave an ashawo my vibrator I got with my money. I couldn’t take it home because I live with my family. This man gave another woman my vibrator to use. I swear I have never been this hurt. He impregnated another girl, and she aborted it for him. As I remember everything, tears keep falling down my cheeks. This man lied to me and took me for a fool. He currently has my money because I was saving with him. I’m waiting for him to send back my ₦1m+. Why do good people get hurt? Why can’t the good ones meet the good ones? I was having back-to-back infections, thinking I was the problem, not knowing I was with a community p*ick. I am still in denial. I am going to do a full STI scan tomorrow, and I really hope I am safe.
Because of love, I cooked for him even though I hate cooking. The only thing he had was a camping gas. I almost got burned and even cut my hand once. I took over his business page and handled it, and he made sales. I created content for his business. I gave my time. My love language is acts of service because I don’t really know how to express myself with words. On his birthdays, I always got him something, and he didn’t even get me anything for some of mine. Gosh, I am so hurt right now. I’ll be going to law school soon, and I’m so glad I discovered this before leaving. Imagine waiting for a promiscuous man. The other girls knew about me, but I knew nothing about them. I feel so foolish. Please, always check your partner’s phone. I used to be against it because I trust easily, but not anymore. Check that phone today. I hope I heal soon. I have a job interview tomorrow that pays in dollars, and I can’t even prepare properly. I don’t want to believe all men cheat. God help me. I have no female close friends, and I have no one to rant or talk to. I feel so sad and lonely right now. I hope I get over this soon.
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