A friend of mine and I both work in a company that has rich clients. This friend of mine, this is not the first time she is expressing such childish behavior, the first one was when she was gisting with someone and then I told her that clients are upstairs; you need to see the bombastic side eye she gave me. I was kind of scared. I then proceeded to sit near her; she stood up immediately and sat on the adjoining seat (Is my body smelling, what’s going on). Later on, I messaged her that I didn’t like this behavior, what did I do, are you trying to pass aggression over something? She couldn’t explain herself. The way she stood up when I sat near her, an outsider would think I am smelling or we are having issues. The second one was when she embarrassed me in the presence of some girls, and all because I said to her “madam let’s go” because we usually go home together; she started yelling, “don’t call me madam that’s not my name!!” I had to yell back because it was so embarrassing. She told me I am no longer her friend and also returned some stuff I gave her. I met her after one week to talk it out, because she snubbed me I had to go meet her. I asked her what is the cause of your anger?
She said I was spiteful to her using the word “madam” on her, that I shouldn’t use madam on her. We settled. Recently, I was being pestered by a customer to have a one night stand with him in exchange for money. Before this I told this friend of mine that I didn’t like the man because he is not attractive to look at and I don’t think I can have anything to do with him, but the third time he asked me I succumbed to it (which I believe is hypocritical of me since I told my friend I didn’t like the man and he’s not attractive). I wanted to talk to her, she started saying I am a liar. I was like let’s have a conversation, she snubbed me (mind you na undercover hook up we dey do). I was surprised that day so I said maybe later. The next day I tried making pleasantries. I said “hi, how are you doing?” She gave me a thumbs up and snubbed me. Later on, I still asked her if she was okay; she still gave me another cold reply. I had to respect myself. I overheard her saying to someone that “all these ashawo girls, things that they said they will not do they will end up doing it, trust only yourself.” She said it on two different occasions. I just knew those words were for me.
As she is snubbing me, I keep seeing her laughing with people that have accused her of using juju to the extent she cried and met me about it, of which I consoled her not to care since her heart is clean, and also another friend of hers that works in that same company siphoned a quarter of the money she was supposed to get from a customer which she complained to me about and I advised her not to have financial dealings with this person again, yet she’s laughing with people that don’t have her interest at heart. Because when it comes to customers, if I see my customers, I always make sure she benefits from the person through tips. I have definitely had enough of the disrespect because there are some things she has done that I have overlooked. Because as far as she has hurt me, why should I take it seriously. I feel like I owe her because this place we both work at, she is the one that gave me the link to speak with the manager. Every time we have issues, I will be the one to meet her. Am I a fool? You have pride, I have pride; why the unnecessary see-finish.