I’m currently with someone who has been professing love and marriage to me, and I can’t lie that family pressure is one of the reasons I planned to marry him while overlooking other red flags. Recently, I told him about being pregnant as a prank to see what his reaction would be. There was so much excitement, but he didn’t call to know how I was faring; he just planned to see my family in November. I told this man about it about two weeks ago, and he didn’t really bring up the conversation or ask if I needed anything to make me more comfortable. I later told him that I had a miscarriage, and he simply responded with “okay,” which made me feel so hurt.
I tried to prank him because I assumed he would be so happy about the pregnancy, but the way he acted surprised me. I finally opened up to him that it was a prank and told him I didn’t like his reaction. He assured me that he just didn’t want to be too forward and expected me to tell him if I needed anything. But I’m worried because he doesn’t seem like someone I can go through losses with. What if something more terrible happens in the future and he’s not able to comfort me? I want to know if this is a valid reason to end the engagement.
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