Hello Rantz family, it’s my first time here. After reading numerous stories from others, now it’s my turn. I’ve been dating this girl since February this year, and the week we started dating, I saw a conversation on her phone where she sent snaps and chatted with a guy abroad. I confronted her, and she apologized, blocked him, and I forgave her since we were just starting, and she met the guy before me (first red flag). A few months later, she started contacting her ex on different apps (TikTok, WhatsApp, Facebook, and Instagram), and I found out each time. She apologized, cried, and promised to stop but never kept that promise. My trust issues kept growing, even though I’m 80% sure she hasn’t slept with anyone because we’re almost always together and she doesn’t live far from me.
Today, I went to her place unannounced because I saw she started following her ex on Instagram again. I asked her to come to my car, requested her phone, and she refused. I told her to choose between the relationship and her phone, and she finally opened it. I saw her chat with him again on WhatsApp—nothing serious, just him replying to her status—but it broke me because it’s the fifth time. Now, I don’t know what to do. She’s been apologizing and crying, but for how long will that continue? I’m sure if the guy really wants her, he’ll get her. I just want reasonable advice from your reasonable fans (I’m one of them too).
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