I introduced my very close male friend (bestie even, I’ve known him all my life) and my close female friend to each other. They hit it off and now they’re together. My problem now is, unintentionally, I get sad that I don’t have the love she has. I’ve been in just one serious relationship and it failed. My female friend talks so much about the things he does for her, I see it too. My male friend also confides in me about her (he loves her so very much). The thing now is, although I’m very happy for them (I can swear this on my life), it saddens me at the same time. I don’t know if it’s jealousy or something else. If it’s jealousy, I always tell God in my sujud to remove the act of jealousy from my life. I love them both and they both mean so much to me, but I get sad that I’ve never had that type of love and may never do. I’m 19, going to 20. Am I an evil friend? I read stories of friends getting so jealous that they do crazy things. I don’t want to be that person in both their lives.
I genuinely wish them all the happiness they can get. How do I work on not being sad? It’s not just them though, it includes other people I know that have their respective partners. I’m speaking majorly about them because they’re the closest friends I have and it saddens me that I reason that way. Irregardless of that, we’re all cool, we vibe so much, laugh so much and whatever you can think of. God dey sha. Thanks for reading.
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