I started dating my boyfriend and we are 6 months now. He made it clear he loves meat so much and he normally eats meat all the time. He can eat it all day without food. So I normally cook for this guy, as a girl who really loves her man would do. On this day, I cooked stew and soup, and after cooking I dished out 80% of the meal and put them in his fridge and left a little in his pot that we were to eat that night. We couldn’t eat the remaining that night, so I knew the remaining would probably waste because I know how petty he is with food. He loves meat. Then I took some of the soup and put it in a small takeaway and also the stew I would take home. Most of the time I cook, I don’t take anything home. I told him I wanted to take soup, which he said okay to. The next day I was to go home, I went to the fridge to check for the stew and soup because there was no light and I wanted to be sure it was frozen but I didn’t see them easily as I kept them. I carefully separated them from the others so they wouldn’t mix up and I could easily identify them. I took time checking for it and I saw him peeping at me.
When I asked him, he said he turned the soup back in the pot. When he said that, I felt so bad and felt like a beggar. I felt so so bad in me but I couldn’t confront him because I was being careful, because he tags little things as complaints. I overlooked it and decided to take the stew home. When I got home, I discovered the meat was tampered with because I put 2 meats in the stew and when I got home there were chunks of meat in it (tiny pieces like remains). I felt stup!d and foolish. I went to the market, came back, stood for hours and cooked, and you did that to me as if I’m worthless. So right now I want to call it quits because I feel he doesn’t value me and he’s very disrespectful towards me. He shouts at me in any little argument and I cannot voice out because he has made me feel I complain a lot. Please I want to move on because I feel not valued with that incident. A part of me is saying he may not have taken it as anything, but a part of me is saying it was an intentional act or greediness. Or am I overthinking it? Or should I move on?
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