A customer ordered perfume from me, and because he couldn’t pick it up himself, he sent someone to collect it for him. Before then, he gave the guy my number and the guy texted me, saying he’ll be the one to pick it up. When he texted me, it was strictly business, just straight to the point. But omo, when we met, amongst the three guys (he came with his friends) that came to collect it, this particular one just caught my attention. I liked him instantly. I gave him the perfume and later texted for reviews, hoping to spark a convo, but he chickened out. Fast forward 14 days later, he texted me again, this time saying he wanted to buy perfume for himself and started moving friendly. Me wey don already like him since that first day, I was so happy. One thing led to another, we exchanged pictures, started planning to see each other, gisting about love, exes, and our vibe just clicked effortlessly. When we finally hung out, omo his hands are so soft. We held hands, hugged, I was just blushing like mumu.
Since then we’ve been texting non-stop, talking about food, relationships, love languages, genotype sef — he’s AS, I’m AA. We met again yesterday and guys… he kissed me. It was so magical. I’ve been thinking about it all day and I swear I didn’t want the kiss to end. Now here’s my dilemma — I’m scared. I feel like everything is happening too fast. We’re still technically in the talking stage but I already like him so much that I’m thinking of a relationship. He told me he likes me too yesterday. I swear it’s like he’s my perfect guy and I’m just scared because it’s like we’re moving too fast… or am I overthinking it? Please, who has been in this kind of situation before? How did it turn out for you? Should I slow down or just go with the flow? Abeg advise me, I’m so confused.
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