Never thought this would happen to me, but the guy I’ve been dating since the last 2 years, I just found out he is married. We have been together off and on. Honestly, I don’t know how he covered his trail so well. Nothing, absolutely nothing, could tell he was married. But I just felt uneasy. My instincts kept telling me something was wrong. For whatsoever reason, I prayed and decided to stalk one of his friends. This is someone I’ve always stalked, only to see his wedding videos and all. I’ve cried so much, it hurts so much. I really don’t know how he could pull this off. I mean, we talk most nights—video calls, phone calls. He stays outside Nigeria, so we don’t see. Why would he do this? Can’t be for sex—we have done that only once. Now I’m worried because this is the second time something like this is happening to me. I keep attracting or meeting men that are married. The reason I was so happy with this one was because I thought he was single—and this happened. I’ve cried so much, my eyes want to peel. It’s so unfair, really. How do I even get over this and start over again? How? Confronted him and all he could say was that I have issues. It’s well with me. Please say a prayer for me. My head hurts from tears and too much crying.
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