Hello, I don’t know how to put this story in a way everybody will understand but I hope you guys understand my point here. It’s impossible to have a perfect partner, right? I am a female, so I will mostly be referring to the male gender. I have come to the conclusion that all men cheat. If you haven’t found out your partner cheats, he is probably just very good at hiding it, or you see signs but you just want to ignore it because you feel you won’t be able to restart another relationship. Fine, some people will still disagree that not all men cheat, but there will always be a flaw—either he is dirty and doesn’t clean up, or his work comes first, or he is a mummy’s boy, or he values his friends’ decisions more than yours, or he beats you, etc. I just feel there is always something. Now, is there something like a better flaw and worse flaw? You are with a cheating partner and you tell yourself, “If at least his problem was communication and not cheating, I would not want to break up,” and then you meet a guy that has communication as a problem, you feel bad again that you have not met your man.
Brainstorm with me, but I feel we have to choose the flaw we feel comfortable with (anyway, none is comfortable). When we look at our parents, we just be like, how did they turn blind eyes to the other person’s flaw? But you are unable to turn a blind eye to the one you are going through. Well, maybe I should just settle with the flaw I can manage, but I have to make sure the flaw is just one. If it’s plenty, then it’s obvious that person is not mine. This life is just hard already. Now looking for a life partner sometimes feels like that one no dey person destiny.
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