So I met this guy last year October. He asked that we should date, which I refused because I had already given up on love. But he kept pleading and pleading. So before I accepted to date him, I asked about his relationship status and he said he and his girlfriend were going through a breakup phase. He showed me evidence to back up what he said. I believed him. So I finally said yes to him on his birthday. He was so happy and all. Everything was going fine. He’s caring and all that. So one particular day while we were together, he asked that we should have sx without protection, which I declined. He asked why and I told him he should get tested and all. Meanwhile, I also had my results on my phone, which I showed him. So the next day he went to get tested. He even video-called me so I could see the process and all. So after some hours, he sent me the results, which were negative, and some other tests too. (I fell in love with him the day he got the test done.) So everything was going fine. This guy made me fall in love again because he’s always giving me reassurance and all.

I love(d) him so deeply. Fast forward to December, I found out he was still with his ex. I confronted him and asked him. He pleaded and said it was complicated, blah blah blah, that no one can come between us. Still giving me reassurance. I fell for it because of how much I had fallen in love with this guy. Well, one thing led to another again, and I found out they were together the previous night (which was on a Tuesday at the time). So I confronted him again through WhatsApp message. This guy was begging me, pleading and pleading, that he’s sorry, this and that, he loves me, blah blah blah, that we should see and talk. Well, I didn’t even give him a listening ear. I was so pissed that I said what was on my mind. I told him since he can’t let go of his ex, he should stay the fuck away from me. I gathered courage, deleted his number, and blocked him! Because a guy can’t be playing with my heart like that. It wasn’t easy, but that’s the best decision I have ever made.

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