I have been in this relationship for 3 years now. I have never cheated on him for once or flirted with anybody. I have been loyal to him and respect him. Because he saw a chat in my phone, chatting with a guy—like we just greeted each other and all, nothing like love or anything—the guy is like my big bro self. My man said, why should I chat with him, this and that. Ever since, he has changed. I even told him, let me call the guy; he said no. My guy doesn’t see anything about cheating o or anything in the phone. He changed everything. I even begged him self. So ever since, he will be throwing shade at me, asking which boy did I see today, which boy touched me, which boy did I go to his room. Omo, I’m tired. I see he doesn’t trust me or love me anymore because he has changed. Maybe it’s because I’m too loyal and also respect him too much. I’m tired. Worst of it, he relocated to another state. I don’t think he loves me anymore. My man watched me cry even when I wanted to settle things between us.
He didn’t care, even if I cry or die self. Sometimes, he’s always saying he’s not going to get married, he wants to be single. I’m in a relationship with a man that doesn’t listen to me or even want to know what bothers me. He’s not like this before. Guys, please advise me.
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