Sometimes things happen to you for a reason. I see a lot of people complaining about being ghosted here, but trust me, it’s God saving you from that person, or the person was meant to be a lesson or an eye-opener to an aspect of your life. A few months ago, I was sad about a guy who ghosted me, but he was an eye-opener to an aspect of my life I had neglected for so long as a woman. The pain from the ghosting also pushed me to be a better person and give my all to my career. And look at me today—the energy I put into my career is making me millions monthly.
When I was with him at that time, I had nothing going on for me, really. I had abandoned my career in search of something else. But him ghosting me kind of redirected my thinking. The pain… oh my God! I wish I could call his name to say thank you for actually ghosting me. If you didn’t, I wouldn’t be making millions monthly right now; I wouldn’t be this successful in just a few months. This was definitely God in action in my life as well. He brought him into my life for a reason—to make me a better woman.
I know I ranted here and insulted him months back, but I take it back. Thank you so much. To every girl who has been ghosted out there, I know you need closure. I know you’re in confusion and dismay. But trust me, a few months down the line, you will be thankful they left you. Just use that pain to help you become a better woman. Pick up a new hobby that will keep you busy. I know it hurts, and it’s hard to forget them, but little by little, you will be grateful you took these steps.
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