As a successful 200-level student earning at least N800k monthly, with supportive parents, I’m frustrated with my boyfriend’s persistent financial struggles. Despite his claims of being broke, he’s always active on social media. I’ve been supporting him financially, sending cards and money from my business earnings, but he doesn’t show enough appreciation. We can’t even afford basic expenses like lodging; we rely on a friend’s house to have fun, or I cover the costs.
Recently, I started listening to “Sprinkle Sprinkle,” and it opened my eyes. I realize I’m tired of attracting broke men despite being financially stable myself. I know how much my dad is spending on me at Lead City, yet I’m dating a guy from Ibadan Poly. This situation feels familiar—my ex-boyfriend left me after I stood by him during difficult times. Now, I fear history repeating itself. I love him deeply, but I need to prioritize my own financial stability and well-being.
I’m thinking of ending the relationship, but I feel guilty about leaving him due to financial issues. Should I break up with him, or will he think I’m abandoning him because of his finances? Listening to “Sprinkle Sprinkle” is giving me more sense, and I truly believe good girl no dey pay. My ex will never make it in life. Kelvin, if you’re seeing this message, you’ll look for help every day, but you’ll never find peace. After spending so much money on this useless boy, I even got him a laptop so he could do his digital marketing and tech work.
I surprised him on his birthday, and when it was my turn, I didn’t even get a pen. I’m tired of attracting broke men. I am doing well for myself, please, because I know some of you us£|ess men will be saying that I’m broke and looking for a rich man. I have close to N4 million in my account, and I’m just 21.
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