My husband has been cheating on me since we got married 8 years ago — with singles, married women, anybody you can think of. But due to pressure from his side and him, I continued to stay. It’s f00lish of me, I know — maybe because he was my first and he married me while I was in university, trauma bond. The issue is that I have 3 house helps. The last one that came, just 2 weeks ago, told me my husband made advances at her. She really wants to stay; she’s from a poor home and I like the girl. My husband is so ashamed I found out and now wants her to go, but that’s not my problem. My problem is, what do I do? His mother is begging me not to tell anyone because it’s a shame to their family.
But I want to leave this marriage, and I have to tell my people, which I know my family will support 100%. My mother-in-law is crying and begging, and I don’t know what to do. This man has caused me so much pain, disrespect, and humiliation. I’m very beautiful, I studied a good course in university, I’m a nurse, and I have two wonderful kids. What do I do now? I knew this man cheats, but if anyone had told me he would want to sleep with my help, I’d never believe it. I was at home; I didn’t travel, I was just in the other room— no regard. Please, I need genuine advice from men and women. Insult me if you want; that’s fine. My husband has already opened the door for me to get insults in this life. I just need to know how to handle this situation.
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