The last time I was in a serious relationship was in 2019 before we separated. Since then, I’ve been single. I’m a 26-year-old girl, by the way. I’ve gone through lots of talking stages with guys, but it just didn’t work out. So, over time, I’ve been dating this married guy that God sent into my life as a destiny helper because he has helped my life a lot. His family lives abroad, so I can’t say I’m causing any form of distraction between them. Our relationship has gotten so serious that he’s even talking about marrying me to live with him here in Nigeria since his family is abroad. But I don’t want such a life for myself, plus I can’t cause another woman pain in her marriage. Recently, I got into a relationship with this wonderful young guy. He is single as well. He’s very responsible and lovable.
He respects me so much, and I love how he treats me. He’s a made man, yet he’s so humble, unlike some guys that are so arrogant because they’ve made it. But the thing is, it still feels like a dream to me that I’m in a relationship, not just an ordinary relationship but one that is everything I’ve prayed for. I’ve always asked God to bless me with a good man because I’m a very nice and homely girl as well. Could it be that God answered this prayer? Please, does this happen to anyone? Why does it still feel like a movie to me? Why can’t I totally accept it? It’s not like the guy is giving me any reason to doubt it. He’s a good guy. Do I have a problem?
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