I am writing this in tears. I met a guy six months ago, we blended so very well, and I was excited that I had started a serious relationship that was leading somewhere. Love has become something else; things we do for love. He was in a big mess with his work and was on the verge of losing it. He needed to raise funds to retain his job. This guy romantically convinced me to help him take a loan with FairMoney on my phone. He was meant to pay in three days.
I helped him collect N200k, and he went ahead and used my phone to collect another N250k, then deleted the app from my phone. When I discovered it, he said he was sorry and would pay back. Now I am stuck because FairMoney needs their N740k. Where do I start from? He suddenly changed and started bringing up stories, claiming he lost his mom, blah blah blah. Our communication became poor. The annoying part is I don’t know anyone attached to him.
He blocked me on Monday when I questioned him about when he is paying. I am stuck. FairMoney keeps calling me. It’s not that I am working, much less able to pay back. My phone had issues, and I lost all our chats that had all our conversations I could use to drag him. I don’t have proof. The only thing is the transaction details on my FairMoney app, nothing more. What am I supposed to do? I have lost weight, and I am so not okay. I have cried my eyes out. Why are people so w**ked? I f00lishly trusted him. In this kind of situation, what am I supposed to do?
He claimed he works with the British Council. How can I start when I don’t have anyone to stand by me to help? I am becoming depressed on a daily basis. This mistake I made left me with regrets. I am losing myself, losing weight, and losing interest in things I enjoy being. I don’t want to lose myself; the regrets are enough. My friends said, “I am too soft, emotional, and I trust easily, and it has made me a weakling.” I am finished. *sobs*
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