Is there something wrong when a lady tries to know where she stands in a man’s life? Because I’ve just observed that what most guys do lately is to just start talking with a lady, and the next thing is sex. Then boom! It automatically becomes a relationship, and that doesn’t sit well with me because I’m a lady of principles and morals. So here’s my rant. I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now, and when we first started, he didn’t open up to me by asking me to be his girlfriend officially. But we went on countless dates, and our talking stage period was beautiful as well.
We had lots of conversations that people in relationships do have. He’s a very responsible guy with morals and values. He did ask me the qualities I want in a man and all those kinds of questions that people ask during the talking stage. Things were going very smoothly and beautifully between us, but at the same time, I wasn’t really comfortable with the fact that he hadn’t asked me out officially yet, and I kept wondering in my mind. I tried to talk to him about it, but I didn’t want to appear too desperate, so I continued going with the flow.
Plus, the guy in question was pretty shy when we first started talking. So one day, I had to summon the courage to ask this guy what he actually wants from me, and honestly speaking, he didn’t hesitate to answer me. The first time I asked him, he told me that he wants something serious. The second time, I had to ask him the same question again to be sure, and he still gave me a positive response. So I asked him why he never opened up to tell me what he wants from me, and he said that he likes to take his time and doesn’t like to rush things.
I asked him again if he still needed more time for him to be sure this is what he wants and if he’s ready for a relationship. He told me he doesn’t need more time, meaning he’s convinced about me. So my question is: Are some men really like that? Not asking a lady out immediately? What if I hadn’t asked him what he wants from me? Would he have asked me out? Do I need to worry about this? Dear gentle readers, I look forward to your honest advice. ❤️🙏
Also Read: I Have An Overprotective Boyfriend