In December, I met a very nice and handsome IJGB guy. He’s a Christian and a very respectable person. At first, I thought it was just a normal fling and friendship, but I ended up actually liking him as a person. We hung out every day, and even on the day he travelled back, we met before he left. After that, we spoke every day, and although he’s a busy person, he still makes time to talk to me. Maybe it’s because this is the first stage, though. I don’t know, but after my last relationship, I told myself I wasn’t going to love anyone as much as I loved my ex because he took my love for granted. So, I recently met someone else, a very handsome Muslim man. He’s half Arab, and this guy is so nice, like overly nice. He’s so humble, down to earth, and takes his religious life seriously. I admire that a lot about him. We don’t talk every day because he’s usually busy on weekdays, but on weekends, he’ll always contact me to see me. Some weekdays too, he calls.
I hardly reach out to him first. I’ve been to his house a couple of times, so no, he’s not married. He hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend yet, but his mood changes anytime I bring up a guy in our conversation or a guy calls me. It’s been almost two months since I met him, though. Meanwhile, I met my IJGB guy three months ago, and my IJGB guy will be coming back really soon. He has asked me out before, but I told him to wait until he comes back and that I wasn’t ready either. My Arab man only asked if I wanted him to fall for me, and I told him not to because I wasn’t ready either. I’m confused now. I think I like both of them. I’m a Christian, by the way.
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