Hi, guys. I’m a guy, and I genuinely want to ask you what can be done about a lady who is always defensive or finds every communication and correction to be an attack. If I try to correct her, she doesn’t see the correction, but she sees an attack, no matter how I phrase it. Even though I use four years to compose the message, making sure there are no words of insult or disrespect, one way or another, she will ignore the key message I’m trying to pass and find something else in that conversation to hold against me. Na that one wey she dey try hold against me we go come dey drag, drag, drag, leaving the main message I was trying to pass. It’s like she doesn’t see her bad character at all, and she gets really angry whenever her attention is called to it.
Even though I try to sit her down to let her know about this side of her, it ends up in an argument. Whenever I give her the silent treatment, she starts crying and begging. After a few days, she goes back to her behaviour again. Please, is there any way this kind of lady can be tolerated, or is there a special way of communicating with her? Because I’m tired, and I’m already thinking of breaking up. Mind you, I’m not broke. I have more than enough, and I always take care of her. Please, I’m not trying to brag. I’m only saying this so you guys won’t think she’s like this because there’s no money.
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